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This is an interesting subject.
I think that most guys smile too much when they’re talking to women that they’re attracted to. Now, I have to modify what I just said a bit.
How about this: Most guys smile in a way that looks like fake-approval-seeking-wussy-man when they’re talking to women that they’re attracted to.
I recommend that most guys learn how to control all aspects of their body language so they can quit doing things that make them seem needy, apologetic, like they’re trying to get a woman’s approval, etc.
And smiling is one of those aspects.
That said, I know guys who smile a lot when they’re meeting women, and they do very well.
What’s their secret?
They make the right moves, so their smiling doesn’t come across as them trying to be liked, kissing up to a woman, etc.
Do what works for you.
But if you’ve been the kind of guy that tries to get women to “like you” in the past, then you’d probably benefit from learning how to smile less, and be cocky & funny more.
June 15th, 2006
The feeling of being in love is one of the most exhilarating feelings that anyone could ever experience. Because of this, it’s very obvious when people are in love. You could see it in their face, their actions, and you can hear it in their voice. There are several reasons why it’s healthy to fall in love once in a while, despite the possibility of heartbreak. Here are the top reasons why it’s good to be in love:
Whenever you’re in love, you feel very inspired. It’s not very surprising that great poets and artists came up with some of their most beautiful works when they were in love. For some reason, being in love opens your heart and mind to new ideas, allowing you to be filled with life. Whether you work as an office secretary or a photographer, your feelings of being in love are often reflected in your work.
You always want to look your best when you’re in love. It’s true - you pay more attention to the way you dress and your personal hygiene when you’re in love. This is because you want to attract the object of your affections, and you get a better chance of doing that if you always look your best. Some people even buy new clothes or shoes during this time. But the grooming tips you apply are more important than the additional clothes you acquire.
You’re constantly trying to improve yourself whenever you’re in love. Most people try to gain new skills and talents whenever they’re in love. This is because we always want to be the best person we can possibly be when we’re in love. Regardless of how your relationship goes, the skills and things you learn from being in love will be with you for the rest of your life.
You learn more about the art of loving. After every romantic experience, you always learn more things about yourself as a lover. You learn from your mistakes, as well as from the things you do right. You also get to learn more about the opposite sex and how to deal with different personality types. It’s definitely good to be in love, because you grow as a person as a result of your experiences.
Being in love allows you to explore other interests, especially the interests of your lover. It’s almost impossible to be 100% compatible with someone else. As a result, you get to be exposed to the interests of your partner that are different from yours. For example, if your partner is into sports, that gives you the chance to play or watch sports whenever you’re together. This is a good thing, because you get to explore different interests that you wouldn’t have tried if you weren’t in love.
All of the reasons are good enough for you to take the leap and fall in love. Of course, this type of feeling comes naturally - you can’t force yourself to be in love. When the opportunity arises, don’t be afraid to take it because falling in love can bring you several experiences that you’ll definitely be better for.
June 15th, 2006
Believing In Love at First Sight
Love at first sight is something that many of us do no believe in until it happens to us. At some point, many of us have an experience where we walk into a room, a club, a friend’s house, wherever and we happen to lock eyes with someone so perfect that we can’t look away. We are immediately filled with anticipation and excitement, and the eye contact continues throughout the night until you finally talk. When you finally do speak, you just seem to click. You like the same things, you finish each other’s sentences, and you are sure that this is what love at first sight is all about.
The love at first sight sensation is as real as the perfect person sitting in front of you, or so it seems. The way we react in a new relationship of any sort isn’t always natural, so as you get to know one another better things may begin to seem not so perfect. Once you step outside of the overwhelming sensations of getting to know someone new you might realize that this isn’t love at first site, but lust at first sight. And, that’s not always a bad thing! Sometimes, the most intense lust can turn to love, so don’t assume that you should just give up as soon as you realize it’s not real love at first sight.
Love at first sight is something that many people believe in because they’ve had it happen to them. Others are a bit jaded because those that they thought were their love at first sight happened to be anything but a dream. Either way, it’s a powerful experience to have felt so connected to another individual so quickly that you were able to call it love. Whether it lasts is something that is totally individual and unique to each relationship, but it is possible. So, do you believe?
June 15th, 2006
This is the general principle:
Make it memorable!!! AND
Unique!!!
Just to be sure it’s memorable -
Record your date
Especially if it’s a walk in the park or
your date’s first time bowling.
For example: take a one-time use camera
and use it up - then plan to get
together next week to look at the
photos.
Leave the person you’re dating with a
memento or special reminder of your
unique date (they’ll think of you every
time they see it).
Art-fest
Get together huge sheets of paper and
pens, or charcoal, or crayons or
watercolors.
Take your date to an art museum or art
gallery or art festival.
After, return home (or go to a park with
a picnic table or other location) and
create your own artwork.
Lickey Sticky Date
Go for a simple walk in the outdoors or
along the beach. Build a fire and roast
and share sticky, gooey, messy, s’mores.
Lick your fingers or whatever else it
takes to get cleaned up…
Floras Notta Bora
A botanical garden, arboretum or a
community garden can be a great place to
visit, especially in the spring. Take a
camera, snap pictures of each other
frolicking through the foliage.
The next day - a
beautiful bouquet