What should a guy do if he wants to get back together with an ex-girlfriend?
June 15th, 2006
If your significant other breaks up with you, two of the best things you can do to get her back are:
1- Act like you’re okay with her decision to leave.
2- Start dating other people and let her know about it.
This combination alone is usually enough to make her come back to you.
Jealousy is powerful. It’s far more powerful than most people suspect.
A situation where girl “A” didn’t have any feelings for you until she saw you with girl “B” is the rule, not the exception.
Jealousy causes people to do crazy things and feel very powerful emotions… from love to hate.
Trying to “get her back” is a losing game in most situations, because the act alone suggests that you’re needy (especially when you don’t even know a woman very well, and you’re trying to “get her back” after one or two dates).
The best thing to do is get on with your life, then call your ex-girlfriend in a month or two to see if she wants to have coffee.
Don’t talk about heavy things, and don’t mention anything about what happened. Just be casual.
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